The title is explaining everything itself that what is it about. Here I would like to introduce you all to a story of “TWO CHILDREN AND TWO DIFFERENT BAGS”. It means that here’s the story of two different children of same age group living their lives differently. It’s a real life based incident.
A boy who’s 13 years old wakes up early in the morning at 6.00 a.m to get ready for his school on the other hand another boy of age 12 years wakes up at 6.00 a.m only but here not for going to school but for collecting garbage from door to door. The 13 year boy is getting ready, wearing his well ironed clothes and the 12 year boy wearing his torn old clothes, as well as walking barefooted. While the 13 year boy combing his hair looking into the mirror of his own room, on the other hand the 12 year boy setting his hair from his hands looking onto the glass of the car from where he’s just passing by. One side 13 year boy taking out books from his bag and on the other side 12 year boy digging up the garbage in his bag. That 13 year boy is playing in his school, having fun, eating good food and living luxurious life, and 12 year boy collecting garbage all day and at the end of the day sleeping empty stomach. Another day comes and the history is being repeated but one day the poor 12 year boy found something to eat from his garbage bag and got so happy as if he has won any victory or something.
This is the life of the poor people who just cannot afford to go to the school, live the lives like we are living. They got their happiness in such small things while we are looking for a big happiness to come. They do not bother about their present and future, they just live their life as they are living it with no such complaints and demands to anyone.
Children Deserve Better !
They deserve to be educated, as they have the right to study being a citizen of this country. They deserve to eat better, live better. Make their future bright, shape their future right by banning child labor. Child labor is child abuse. Children should deserve pens in their hands not tools at this age. They are the future of our nation so support and protect the pillars of our nation.
STOP CHILD LABOR !
“CHILD LABOR is a devestation, they should concentrate on EDUCATION.”
We all are aware of the term ‘respect’. Also we often use this term as well. But do you exactly know the meaning of respect or what does it means? Respect is admiring, regarding and concerning for someone’s feelings, abilities, qualities or achievements.
Trump says, ” Put in is a respectable person.” Now we have the word ‘respectable’. That means one has to give an honour to the other person. In our Vedic period senior demands a respect from the junior in the family, i.e the elders in the family have some respect from the junior. Likewise the junior have some sought of loving words by the seniors. In this way our Vedic culture teaches us that the honour has to be provided by the junior to the seniors. But the value system in our current time has gone a drastic change. When we are walking on the street we see that some junior person is rebutting the senior one, for no fault of him. This we see in our daily lives. The children at home also rebutting their parents and shout over the behaviour of the parent. They do not realise that he or she is the child of his parent. Here we must consider our self that if we do not pay respect to our parents we may also not be respected by them. Hence, a respect is an inherent right of the person. If we pay respect to our parent or seniors, we also get the respect in return.
Hence, ever since the world is created the Vedic culture in India prevails. Man also has a dignity and honour. This is the human nature. The world has changed at every state, one has to behave sensibly, whether in his schools, colleges, work place, corporate world and the business spheres. Politeness is another word that directs towards the respectability. In communication we are supposed to express ourselves in a very polite manner to others. This is also an index of paying a respect to the person to whom we are communicating. The other party would think that this man respects me, and could also pay respect to others. This is a phenomenon of giving and receiving a due respect to each one. On the other hand we see some altercations at the Metro to getting window. The counter part enters into unnecessary arguement with the commuters, on a pretext of ticketing and some money exchanges. The manner in which both of them conveys this respectful words to each other. In this case no one pays respect to each other. This was, the end result quarrel between each other.
The society of humanity is vast. If we do not communicate ourselves in a dignified way, then we do not deserve any respect from the person to whom we are communicating to. To get respect from others we have to think ourselves first. As to how to behave in the society, so that the society also gives us the respect. Now if settle issues in the society comes up, that are very formulative then, these issues are to be solved in a very respectful ways, otherwise we have seen many situations where the life and properties were destroyed and ultimately the people had suffered. Therefore the dignity and respect demands that we should not leave the polite manner of tackling any issue. The respectful manner results in positive ways. To give respect and tells reciprocity.
“Respect for ourselves guides our morals; respect for others guides our manners”
Personality is the set of qualities that make a person distinct from another. Personality is that potential that determines someone’s success in their life and career. The word personality is originated with the word persona which means mask. It is the combination of a person’s mental and physical being including appearance, manners, habits, way of talking and walking.
It has been aptly said that: Reputation is what people think you are. Personality is what you seem to be. Character is what you really are.
Personality analysis is a methodology for categorizing the character and behavior of a person. Personality is made up of some characteristic pattern of thoughts, feelings and behavior that make one person different from others.
Personality also includes :
Body Language ( especially when sitting and getting up)
How important is it to develop your personality ?
Ensure excellence in one’s chosen field.
An improvement in your personality can improve your chances for success in any undertakings.
Mere external appearance
Express your : Originality, Creativity, Deep thinking AND
Give up : Artificiality, Imitation, Shallow and superficial thinking
Positive attitude :
Don’t find fault with others
I can do instead of I cannot do
Choose to do the things instead of doing them forcefully.
Requirements towards the development
of a fine personality :
Clarity of goals and purpose in life
Doing beyond expectation
Learning from failures
Character and personality
Positive mental attitude
Sound physical and mental health
Growing in one’s knowledge and skills
Desiring pleasure and excitement
Tips for improve your attitude at work situation :
1. Develop confidence
2. Have realistic expectations of yourself
3. Determine if “adequate” is good enough
4. Re assign the work
5. Create system or use a tool
6. Ask for reassignment
General Grooming Tips :
Light on cologne/perfume
Brush your teeth, use mouthwash
“A personality devoted uniquely to it’s own development absorbs other lives.”
Time simply means past, present and future. Our whole life revolves around these three factors.
What is Money ?
A medium of exchange in the form of coins and notes through which the assets, property, and resources owned by someone.
Time is an important factor in one’s life and also in the corporate world at large. Each person has to think about the element of time in each aspect of life. As the sun arises each morning and sets in the evening in the entire parts of the Globe. The human factor and also the nature of work are all mixed together. We as a human being have to perform different types of duties, right from morning till night when we go to bed. We have twenty four hours and not twenty five to perform our duties according to the time. Students have to get up early in the morning at 6 o’clock then have to get ready for the schools or colleges as the case maybe, they have to spend time in the schools and colleges. After returning from there they have their lunch and then take some rest, then again in the evening they perform their work according to the need of an hour. The evening comes and the night follows, after the final prayer they go to bed, and the twenty four hours of the day is over.
For the working people, the farmers have to rush to their farms, the workers to the field and the factory, the officers to the offices and rest of the humanity are at their duties as the day comes.
All these spheres of life, requires the Time Management. One has to give priority to one’s requirement of work or duty. Without assigning priority or step by step going to the work concerned would not be possible to achieve or complete. We have to prioritize each elements of time to perform or complete our work on hand. We have to always think about the time consumption required in a particular type of activity so as to achieve our goals in life. The preparation of the schedule of the time management is a must. We have to select the time hour for performing a particular work in a day. If we are not able to perform as per the time selected then the work remains pending and that affects the over all performance of the entire day. Finally we lacked behind. That is a negative aspect of the life, resulting from not prioritizing the time schedule as a whole.
Similarly, the money part needs prioritizing for the sake of consumption or spending. It is said that “Time is money” that means if we do not prioritize time then our money part becomes affected. As the machine produces a product say car, it requires time to produce a car taking into account, the time elements involved in it. For producing anything the time element goes into it and the same is transformed into money. Wasting time results into wasting money.
For instance, If the workers of a factory are on a strike then the production of a product say car, is not there. Hence the money obtained by selling a car is lost. So the time is an important element entered into money. Therefore, we see that time is money, and these things or elements are to be prioritized. If there is no priority of time and money, as to how spending the final result would be either positive or negative as the case maybe.
Hence, learn to manage both of them equally so as to ease your life your goals and to be happy.
Self-Image – The idea, conception, abilities, personality or mental image one has of oneself.
Self-Esteem – Respecting and appreciating yourself for who you are.
Self image is basically that how a person sees them self or what is their conception about them self in their mind. Self images can be positive or can be negative but it’s up on the person’s viewpoint that how they see the things whether positive or negative.
How can one create a positive self-image?
One’s self image can not be constant through out the life, it’s dynamic and keep on changing. We can learn to develop a healthier and more accurate view of ourselves, thus challenging the distortions in the mirror. Changing self image is a process which occurs lifetime. A good and effective self image starts with the learning capacity and with the thinking of loving yourself. Not only loving yourself but also loved by others and accepted by others.
Specific steps to foster a positive self-image :
Take a self-image inventory
Make a list of your positive qualities
Ask significant others to describe your positive qualities
Define personal goals and objectives that are reasonable and measurable
Confront thinking distortions
Identify and explore the impact of childhood labels
Refrain from comparing yourself to others
Develop your strengths
Learn to love yourself
Give positive affirmations
Remember that you are unique
Remember how far you have come
PERSONAL MAGNETISM TEST:
Personality is the mental, spiritual, and physical traits – good or bad – which distinguish you from all others. To realize prosperity and success you need to build a powerful magnetic personality that attracts people to you. Here’s a list of traits that will help you achieve a pleasing, attractive, engaging, and winning personality.
Please rate yourself, not on how you feel about yourself, but on how you think others would rate you.
A Positive Mental Attitude
Keep your mind filled throughout the day with positive and happy thoughts? It’s not much fun being around negative people. Treat everyone you meet as if they were the most important person in the world.
Learn how to send out and project an aura into the atmosphere that surrounds you, that will create a good mood and feeling for those near you.
The Capacity To Understand People
To be a leader and well respected by the people you work with – you must learn to be an expert when it comes to understanding and inspiring people.
The best-dressed and groomed person usually increases their energy and attracts the most favorable attention.
Use Of Creativity
Everyone is born with a brain and an imagination. Some use theirs to develop their fullest capacity to create a great life for themselves – while others use theirs very seldom and end up living a life of mediocrity and lack.
Control Of Your Emotions
Self discipline is necessary if you’re to enjoy the benefits of a pleasing personality. Some of the negative points which usually comes to one’s life are : Fear, hatred, anger, jealousy, revenge, and irritability. Whereas seeing the positive points there are : Love, kindness, trust, hope, desire, loyalty, sympathy, and optimism.
Concern For Others
A person who is concerned about the welfare, happiness, and safety of others is a well-loved person.
This is a fast moving, high speed world. The tempo of human thoughts and actions is so rapid that people often get in one another’s way. Patience is required if you wish to avoid friction in human relationships.
If it’s meant to be – it’s up to me. Making things happen.
Correction and regulation of oneself for the sake of improvement.
Positive Facial Expressions
There are thousands of ways a person speaks without ever opening their mouth. It’s called body language. Are your facial expressions saying things that will attract others to you, or turn them off?
Speaking Ability Before Others
Can you inspire and rouse and audience to action?
Always go out of your way to help others and be kind to them.
A Good Sense Of Humor
A well developed sense of humor helps you stay flexible and adjust to life’s varying circumstances. It keeps you from taking yourself and life too seriously.
Do you have the ability to adapt yourself to quickly changing circumstances without losing your composure?
Skill and grace in dealing with others. People show their lack of tact in many ways.
So there are some ways through which you can test your personal magnetism.
“Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.”
Self confidence simply means a feeling of trust in one’s ability, power, qualities and personal judgement. Two main things contribute to self-confidence that are self-efficacy and self-esteem. We gain a sense of self-efficacy when we see ourselves (and others similar to ourselves) mastering skills and achieving goals that matter in those skill areas. This is the confidence that, if we learn and work hard in a particular area, we’ll succeed; and it’s this type of confidence that leads people to accept difficult challenges, and persist in the face of setbacks. This overlaps with the idea of self-esteem, which is a more general sense that we can cope with what’s going on in our lives, and that we have a right to be happy. Partly, this comes from a feeling that the people around us approve of us, which we may or may not be able to control. However, it also comes from the sense that we are behaving virtuously, that we’re competent at what we do, and that we can compete successfully when we put our minds to it. Some people believe that self-confidence can be built with affirmations and positive thinking. It is believed that there’s some truth in this, but that it’s just as important to build self-confidence by setting and achieving goals – thereby buildingcompetence.
What is self esteem ?
People are often confused about what it means to have self-esteem. Some think it has to do with the way you look or how popular you are with your friends or others. Others believe that having a great body will help you gain self-esteem, while others think you actually need to have accomplished something in order to have good self-esteem. Self-esteem simply means appreciating yourself for who you are. Self-esteem is similar to self-worth (how much a person values himself or herself). This can change from day to day or from year to year, but overall self-esteem tends to develop from infancy and keep going until we are adults.
What can develop self esteem ?
Take a deep breath : Staying relaxed and being laid-back in general can help you see the bigger picture and not sweat the small stuff so much. It’s also a good frame of mind to be in when you’re taking a close look at the things you’re not so good at the things you’re not so good at.
Take inventory of your strengths : Everybody’s good at something, and many people are good at quite a few things. Even if you don’t have a talent or strength that you’re aware of, you probably have some interests can develop into strengths. Make a list of a few things you’re good at and a few things you’re interested in and would like to be better at. Share this list with your parents, an aunt or uncle, or a teacher you like and trust. They can probably help you find other things you’re good at, too, and help you come up with a plan for developing other skills and interests.
Realize your limits : Nobody’s perfect — not even close. It may not always seem this way, but it’s true. So if you weren’t born a good singer, a super athlete or an “A” student, that’s OK. You have a personality and a perspective on the world that’s all your own and completely valuable.
Stop putting yourself down. Now! : One of the biggest things that keeps people from achieving their goals — and feeling good about themselves — is negative self-talk
In other words, telling yourself that you’re a loser or a failure puts a big damper on your ability to get what you want and be who you want. If you don’t do well at a particular project or task, it doesn’t mean that you never will. Perhaps you weren’t prepared or the time simply wasn’t right. It doesn’t mean that you’re a lousy human being or that you’ll never succeed. It’s OK to be upset for a bit when things don’t go your way, but after a little while, let it go and move on. You’ll be that much closer to achieving what you want if you do.
Celebrate progress and small victories : Did you pass your driver’s test or gave a great speech despite feeling nervous? Give credit where credit’s due: You did it, and you rule! And guess what? You can tackle bigger, harder projects, too.
Pat yourself on the back every day : Find a few small things that you did well each day. Whether it’s waking up on time, smiling at the dorky hall monitor or sending a card to your grandmother, a lot of good can be accomplished in one day — and it’s something to take pride in.
” MAKE YOUR SELF ESTEEM HIGH, HONOR WHO YOU ARE ! ”
Writing is a written concept or a write-up use to express someone’s words, feelings, expressions or emotions and exchanging thoughts and ideas through a write-up. Writing basically is a medium of communication between a group of people or between two persons. It represents language and emotions with signs and symbols. Writing has a same structure represented in different ways like speech, debate, letters, blogs or a website. Many people nowadays has start up their blogs or either their own websites in which they use to post the content of their interest whether it is fashion, food, motivation, to incite someone or for anything else. Nowadays we have too many bloggers around so many people who have their own websites and use to express their words or interest onto it to the public.
But there’s a difference between a blog and a website and it’s a very major difference between the two.
The major difference between a blog and a website is in how the data is being presented- the format basically.
What is a blog ?
A blog is a web log that a blogger makes and use it for their content and interest, which can be easily started with WordPress and Blogger etc. Quality and regularity are examples of a good blog.
What is a website ?
A website can be anything, which is an interest presented in HTML, CSS, JAVA and various other software. A website is not just posts, it’s a home page which would be more than browsing other pages, from services like Adobe Dreamweaver, you could build your own website and also you have to buy your own domain name for your website.
This is the main difference between a blog and a website.
Always remember that a blog and a website is not the same as they meant different, they worked different and also functions differently. As same as :
“All apples are fruits but not all fruits are apples.”
“All blogs are websites but not all websites are blogs.”
OKAY, now that was the difference between the two and now moving further apart from it is to a question that:
‘IS WRITING AN ART OR A CRAFT?’
A craft is a skill, especially involving practical arts. It may refer to a trade or a particular art.
Art is the process or product of deliberately arranging elements in a way that appeals to the senses or emotions. It encompasses a diverse range of human activities, creations and model of expressions, including music, literature, films, sculpture, and painting.
Writing is both an art or a craft. It cannot be considered just one as an art or a craft. As the real art is in the craft- both the words comes together, emerges together explaining each other’s role and importance. Even the most artful writing relies on craft and visa versa. No doubt writing is most commonly considered an art form. If one has the talent of a creativity thing called craft then other has the talent of explaining the emotions very slightly and peacefully through a common piece of painting called art.
They both complement each other in writing because while writing a write-up or anything you first need a creative mind with fine hands through which you can portrait your feelings and expressions in the form of words on a piece of paper or a web page or anything. Always remember writing good dialogue is art as well as craft too. Reflect your expressions through your words before you act. The craft of writing is the art of discovering what you believe.
“The craft of writing is the art of penetrating other minds with the figures that are in your own mind.”
Before starting to my web log I would first like to tell you that ‘What is an optimism?’
“Optimism is the faith that leads to ACHIEVEMENT. Nothing can be done without HOPE and CONFIDENCE.”
Optimism is a mental attitude. Optimism is basically a form of positive thinking that includes the belief that you are responsible for your own happiness, and that more good things than bad will continue to happen to you. In another words Optimism means hopefulness and confidence about the future or the success of something.
Optimism is a significant essence of life. Life means live happily and peacefully with all one’s energy. As the sun rises and sets and again the next day the sun comes out with it’s full blossom. That indicates that we living beings must tell you out our purpose of life. For instance a child goes early in the morning to his or her school as their destination of the life. They have learnt the purpose of living. A full grown man carries out his work in a working environment whether an office, a factory, a firm land, a shop, or any other working venture. All these tell us something or the other purpose of life, example we have a case of Bavani Masjid in the Supreme Court. The court has to deliberate the petition for justice towards the court has given a temporarily relief as to conduct the proceeding on the daily basis at the Court in Lucknow and give the final verdict there itself. Now this is a continuous process in life. The life covers the entire aspects of human nature and culture, these are a continuous process. There are lots of ups and downs affecting the human life. The human being have a psychological basis of mind. The mind functions according to the development of the situation, the situation forces to be happy or unhappy. If the situation demands that the human being must bare the crunch of the problem of life. This unhappiness affects the human being in a positive or a negative way. Now, is the question before the human being whether to feel positive or negative as per the effects of the situation upon the human mind, is something great happens in the minds of human being that his chosen result has been achieved. For instance he has passed in some examination. This gifts happiness in his mind. Or if he has failed in the examination it gives him the unhappiness. Here comes the function of optimism in life, one must take it with strong views in his or her mind and accept the consequences. This is one role of taking the viewpoint of optimistic way of thinking.
One should not take it as the negative effects for that failure or result or consequences in life. We see many human souls losing energies to work further. At times we hear that someone has come in front of the metro train at the metro station and the person is dead. In this case we see that the person concerned has failed to use his energy in life. And he was not hopeful of any further chances in life, therefore he ended his life by himself.
In the above case study the element of optimism was completely exhausted. At the same time we see another case that if the person has failed in one attempt of his target then he or she should attempt further for the second time to achieve his/her goals in life and then they finally succeeds. This is a case of pure optimistic way of thinking in life and thereby achieving one’s goal !
“Be Optimistic – People want to be around others who view life as a positive venture.”
“The tongue is the only tool that gets sharper with use”
Well sometimes we get into the situation in which we lost our temper or get high-per and sometimes get irritated too, due to which our anger gets out of control which leads our tongue to speak out the words which use to be inside and not to be outspoken. Being out of control or impatient is not right, whatever the situation is you have to be very patient and keep yourself calm and solve your problems calmly.
Okay, now let’s go in the track other than anger, it’s not obvious that you’ll be outspoken only when you are in anger or in the situation where your patience has to be tested. Sometimes the situation can be different also.
For instance; while we prepare ourselves to convey our thoughts and ideas to someone for achieving our aim or making an impression on others, we have to be calculative and brief. So as to fulfill that, our ideas or interest should be upon the objective target that is the person or a group of people, for eg. the business communication to promote the sale of any brand of consumer items. It may be of any brand. In this case we have to be very brief to the customer and motivate them to select their choice for either any amongst the two brands in which they are getting confused. You can always help them, guide them and suggest them but remember you can never force them to buy any of the product you want to sell. The choice is purely will be of the person’s concerned.
Now, we are in a deliberation to control out tongue in persuading the customer to have their expression for selecting a particular brand of consumer item. We should not indulge in unnecessary conversation for the campaign or promoting the specific brand of a product.
Moreover, nowadays we have Facebook and Twitter in which we do express our thoughts and ideas to our friends or to the world at large, in this connection we have to be little conscious about expressing ourselves or about some special topics or ideas to the concerned objects. For instance sometimes it happens that we react to some celebrity’s reaction about the world affairs. If any bolly-wood star is expressing their opinion in the public about any particular issue and we want to express our views on their expression then we have to be very precised and brief. At the same time our tongue must be in a sliced manner. Our words have to be selective and expressive.
All these necessities restricted expression to the thoughts and ideas in general.
This should be the manner and courtesy for controlling your words or tongue in front of anyone to not to be rude and bad in anyone’s mind.
You should THINK before you speak.
T- is it true ?
H- is it helpful ?
I- is it inspiring ?
N- is it necessary ?
K- is it kind ?
You should think of the ENVIRONMENT while speaking. REMIND your family background while taking slangs out. And most importantly BE SILENT sometimes because being silent is the best way to let someone realize their mistakes. SILENCE is not only a sign of weakness; it’s also a sign of strong SELF CONTROL.